Let me just say up front that I have no problem with events at which alcoholic beverages are served and/or imbibed.
I also do not have a problem with adults using alcohol as a means of fund-raising for youth-related activities. I have been to any number of nights at the races, octoberfests, oldies dances, etc. to support a variety of community organizations, including such youth programs as football, cheerleading, bands, etc.
There were, however, no youth present at any of these fund-raisers.